Much of what seems so real in this physical dimension is not the entire Truth of who we are and/or what we can do. Over the last decade, I have allowed myself to both explore and expand beyond the physical, mental and emotional boundaries I thought were rigidly in place in this "reality". What I found was an aspect of Self that I had forgotten was there. I offer these wonderings and wanderings as an invitation to see beyond "what meets the eye", MRI (magnetic resonance imaging) and "why can't I?" in your life!... and Releasing Self-Limiting BeLIEfs!
Do you …
- have a conscious knowledge and bad memories of childhood trauma, neglect, abuse, shaming, or abandonment?
- feel like SOMETHING's MISSING in your life, but “on paper” you’ve got it all?
- feel like you SHOULD be happier? You’d like to be happy but cannot easily laugh, feel awe/joy/ inner peace?
- feel stalled or stuck in some way? You cannot pinpoint what your next move should be or have TROUBLE MAKING DECISIONS?
- find yourself SELF-SABOTAGING RELATIONSHIPS? You shut down when things get “too real”?
- feel really angry much of the time? Feel like you cannot love yourself?
- observe that your EMOTIONS ARE sometimes really EXTREME? Someone says or does something most people would consider minor, yet you respond with or feel extreme rage, sadness, frustration, rejection, loneliness, (fill in an emotion of upset)?
- “suddenly” find yourself sick or have developed a MAJOR DISEASE, despite eating well and taking care of yourself? Perhaps you even developed an illness in your teens or earlier?
Being traumatized in your childhood or not being nurtured in a way you needed/craved may be at the core of each of these circumstances and conditions. Understanding the role of the inner-child can help us to both identify with and step-up to a greater version of self.
Without the burden of childhood pain and trauma tethering us, my clients and I have experienced huge shifts ... finally feeling comfortable in one's body or skin ... connecting with not only self-acceptance but also self-love ... regaining mobility, joy, wellness ... starting a new business ... finding that dream life-partner.When the internal is balanced, the external is
balanced! When the internal is harboring un-ease, it creates a type of "static" that can take our amazing bodies' immune systems and natural healing off-line!
Hidden Secrets, Doorways, Escape, Release
“Stop being so full of yourself!” “Stop crying or I'll give you something to really cry about!” “You are worthless (hopeless, stupid ... fill in the blank with the seedings of self-limiting beLIEfs)”
For many of us, those who were allegedly there to guide, nurture, support, mentor, LOVE just weren't able to do better. I assure you, there IS a higher purpose to these stories you have been enmeshed with, but that doesn't mean you're stuck with them.
“Children don’t know anything!” “When you’re older, you’ll understand.” “Stop living in a fantasy world; that’s not real!”
From a spiritual perspective, I further assert that these are not expressions of TRUTH. Higher Guidance has illustrated that we EACH come here knowing our interconnection to all life, God or Source, The Universe, our infinite potential, our divine perfection, and our life purpose!
We’ve been told adulthood is where it’s at. Yet as adults, we actually grow more and more “hooded” from understanding what’s at the heart of living, thriving, BEing here as the unique radiance we are here to express.
We run toward “being a grownup,” swallowing childhood pain, trauma, and accepting others’ rules and cultural programming. Some of us dare to stand out and, as a result feel isolated. Others “blend in,” forgetting our unique soul qualities.
We live a smaller and smaller version of our soul essence ... who we are here to BE. We focus on the challenge. Yet, ironically the opportunity is right there, too, albeit hidden in plain view.
If Baby’s Unhappy, Ain’t Nobody Happy
Through inner-child healing, you CAN overcome illness, create better relationships, and feel good in your own amazing skin. The inner peace and the life-path guidance we crave are within reach ... they just may be hiding and your younger selves may be ready to share their hiding spots.
In my Healing Resonance LLC session work, I use Matryoshka(Russian Nesting) Dolls to illustrate the importance of healing and reconnecting with our inner-child selves. These dolls stack inside one another, starting with a solid “baby,” shaped somewhat like a bowling pin. Once stacked, it looks like one doll, but there could be any number of smaller dolls inside.
For a moment, imagine yourself with these layers. Just like the Matryoshka dolls, if one or more “layers” are not nested properly (stable), everything going forward just doesn’t fit. Conversely, once you “seat” the inner layer(s), the outer layers can almost immediately realign.
Amazingly, these dramatic shifts of realignment can also be experienced by mind-body-spirit-emotions through my Perspective Reboot® spiritual energy healing modality. I offer session work in groups and privately with individuals and couples.
A Multi-Dimensional, Integrative Approach to Wellness
Healing childhood pain and trauma and re-integrating the child selves can often be life-changing. My Perspective Reboot® body-mind-spirit-emotions healing and empowerment approach focuses on addresses:
Body – A Self-Healing Wonder
Quantum Science and experiments like Masaru Emoto’s water crystal transformation confirm that OUR THOUGHTS MATTER. In our world, the non-physical ALWAYS precedes the physical. (Someone gets the product idea, makes concept drawings, selects materials, and produces the product.)
Our bodies also work like this. Yes, genetics and lifestyle choices play a role in our wellness, but so do our thoughts, fears, unprocessed childhood emotions and traumas, and self-limiting “family stories.” All create and impact the blueprint for our physical body’s overall wellness and ongoing immune response.
Sometimes the wounded-child selves are disrupting the body’s natural rhythms. Balancing the non-physical can have immediate health benefits.
Mind – Self-Love and Self-Esteem
When we have been neglected, shamed, rejected, or abused as a child, we may unconsciously continue that pattern WITHIN OURSELVES as adults. Unconsciously, we become the one that neglects, shames, rejects, or abuses ourselves.
Awareness = The Power of Choice = The Power to Change
For some, just considering the nested-selves model I’ve presented can positively change their view of themselves and the world! Clients who could find NO self-love found an immediate doorway for love, nourishment, happiness, wellness, and inner peace through their inner-child selves. This awareness seems to give them “permission” and a basis for making better lifestyle choices.
Spirit – Finding Our True Self and Life Path
Just like that Matryoshka doll that was solid, the youngest child selves know love, our unlimited potential, our gifts, etc. Through these aspects of ourselves, we more readily connect to unlimited wonder, joy, gratitude, and a more expansive view of our potential and of our world. That is, once these aspects of the SELF are not hiding, angry, afraid, emotionally malnourished, or pretending to be someone else to “fit in.”
Emotions – Choosing to Be You … Free and Happy
The wounded child is often waiting for someone to “see” them, love them, reassure them, “give them a hug.” Once recognized and held in our circle of love and light, they are happy to move forward. Many clients express a feeling of lightness or like being released from an invisible prison or feel a cage come off their heart and spirit!
We can heal. We can change as we see(ze) our choices in each NOW moment. First, we have to pause and choose to disengage life’s “AUTOPILOT.”
Ultimately, we are each here to be ourselves; only YOU can be you! If any part of you is hiding, you cannot be authentic. That is uncomfortable on many levels and can also make you sick.
We can miss the “big picture” of our existence because we are zooming in to look for the artist’s signature, forgetting we are the painter ... standing paintbrush in hand. It’s time to thrive and BE HERE NOW!
You can change your present and future by healing childhood pain and trauma.
In a moment, you can leap from victim to victor, from surviving to thriving! You can understand from a Higher Perspective where there have been opportunities hidden within plain view within your challenge.
There is always love present ... I am here if you’d like support in painting a new picture.
We heal and change the world AS and THROUGH ourSELVES; this is why this work is so valuable, not only for us, but for others in our lineage and in our world. You may be one who has struggled, but ultimately, your healing this within you positively affects not only you, but others as well.
I understand and KNOW I would not be able to BE and touch others were we not ALL interconnected. So, this healing work is so important. As we heal one, we heal our ONE.
alone plus LOVE = ALL ONE
Much love to you,
Kristi
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