|Imagine one thing ... just one moment you've felt REJECTION or LOSS ~ Open your seeing of that moment as your life path's auto correct, meant not to root you, but to shift you ... GO! Fly free! Love, Kristi|
Human nature and prevailing Western culture whines "why did this happened TO ME?" Yet our expanded awareness shows us that "this may actually be happening FOR ME!" How can loss and rejection of those we love, jobs that support us, living arrangements that seem to be working be happening FOR YOU, you may ask?
Perhaps rather than being comfortable and safe, or perhaps because of that, these placid life circumstances may not actually be serving your strengths, your higher quest for soul growth, your ability to touch others' lives, your evolution toward unconditional love!
Missing Life's Street Signs
Life serves up subtle cues to/for us to shift, change, grow, and yet we resist. Perhaps we even knowingly "settle". We feel fear in our stomachs that glues us ever more firmly into place. But the stomach is also the location of our Solar Plexus Chakra ... our connection to our unlimited power. We mistake the awakening of that power center for fear and collapse the opportunity to GO!
We cruise through opportunities “A”, “B”, “C”, “D”, “E”. Eventually, we root in position "F" and feel our footing beneath us. We may then resist expansion and opportunities “G”, “H”, “I”, “J”, “K”, etc. We missed the Knowing that these mini-shifts were offered as chances to intersect easily onto another timeline, toward our soul's growth or life purpose. We choose to stay rooted. Eventually, BANG!
Getting us to move may finally take something extreme, something seemingly beyond our control. Perhaps it quite literally knocks us off our feet! Life gets REAL ... urging us at last to shift from spot "F" to spot "U"!
Disease and Accidents
Where is the gift in disease and major, traumatic injuries? We are often too focused on the outer world, what everyone else is doing and thinking, to be conscious of our own thoughts. This avoidance is similar to missing the street signs for our timeline shifts. Eventually things have to break for us to want to fix them or even to take notice! We are seeing that happen now on a global scale.
Anita Moorjani's biography "Dying to be Me" offers beautiful illustrations of our ability (1) to miss our Truths hidden in plain view and (2) to heal our bodies once we understand how our dis-ease is sabotaging our natural healing mechanisms.
It's the point of least resistance or the weakest link that experiences a break. So is true when we fall or have a physical accident. The place that sustains the injury is typically where we have been holding negative emotions. So, it's important to look beyond the physical symptoms and their pain to the pain that lies beneath the surface.
Knowing what unconscious messages we're sending to our body or where we've tucked away unprocessed trauma allows us to change the script, clean house and allow the body's self-healing mechanisms to come back fully online!
Be Open to Life
The more we open to spiritual information and the invisible information streams from Higher Guidance, the more we can appreciate that life and our intersections are not random! Things happen for a reason. Our loved ones pass, jobs end, circumstances and even stability changes when it's in the Highest Good! Realize that is an umbrella which always includes us and OUR Highest Good!
Our culture has a negative bias, pointing at our powerlessness, not our power. Yet, we can we find that space of knowing this trauma, loss, rejection is FOR us! When we lose what makes us feel secure how can that ever be a good thing? How does the death of a loved one EVER make sense, particularly if we feel in some way responsible? We are looking in the wrong place!
Finding Meaning and Momentum in Loss and Rejection
We are raised to beLIEve that death of our physical bodies is the ultimate end; but that is not Truth.
Ancient peoples throughout our world have celebrated death, knowing that the Spirit World, our ancestors, Our Creator/Source/God remains tied to us, even flow through us, forever. If you want to find more footing here, pick up your choice of books on near death experience (NDE) books. Love and Light are a common thread. This is the building block of all life; it is part of us and we are part of it ... through all time, space, dimensions, realities, yada yada!
I hope that as you open your heart/mind to these healing perspectives, you will find the space in which to celebrate your loved one's transition, the rejection of a lover or birth-family member, the loss of that "dream job".
Imagine that as you remain stuck, you are blocking the flow of this life that is trying to move you forward into "The Flow"! Honor all sense of loss as MORE IMPORTANTLY a gift from these others ... live your life with depth and joy and richness lest you waste the gift!
Life Really Isn’t Random
Several years ago, I saw a young mother (I'll call Jane) whose husband had recently ended his own life. She was distraught, feeling that she would have/could have/should have stopped him (yet she also knew she was unaware that he was considering suicide). She was overcome not only with loss, but also with guilt.
Jane's story is important because parallels in her life ultimately show that if she (or anyone else) was to "save him" it would have happened!
During her first session, Jane had a flashback to helping another soul in a similar situation. She was at a club with friends and excused herself to the restroom. Another young woman was there at the sinks. Jane said "hi" and left.
Yet, when she got back to the table, Jane couldn't relax. She had a sense that she "just needed to go back in there and talk to her". Jane did so, asking the other if she was all right or if she needed someone to talk to. The woman declined and that was the end of the interaction.
Months later, Jane was walking down the street when a young woman stopped her. She reminded Jane that she was the woman from the club's restroom. She shared memories with Jane of feeling so alone that night. She'd planned to end her life when she got home, but Jane's reaching out provided the human contact and caring that changed her course.
Love Never Dies
This was a powerful message from Source/God/Spirit. "You were called into service with the Knowing to intervene. If it had been possible or if you were the one to achieve that with your husband, it would have happened again!" She forgave herself in that moment, moving forward from a bottomless pit of guilt that had amplified her grief in the loss of this special soul.
Death is the closing of a door only if we close it. It is the opening to a new life if we open it! Realize that "love never dies" and intend to stay connected to your loved one. Watch for signs and messages that she/he is there with you/for you! Let this not hold you back, but provide a loving embrace that helps you move forward toward sometime more!
Years later, Jane has a new career, her daughter is thriving! Life opened up in ways that she could never anticipate and wouldn't realize if she had stayed stuck in guilt and loss! She is engaged to the one she feels is her "soul mate". She sees and celebrates her beloved husband every day in her daughter's smile.
Hindsight is 20/20
Most of us can think of one or more instance in our lives in which there was a death, a loss/ending in this physical realm, that ultimately opened us to something we wouldn't have experienced otherwise. Our power lies in our choices ... glass half empty; glass half full?
I'd like to suggest that LIFE IS FULL! It is teaming with opportunities for you to stop swimming upstream, to get untangled from the weeds, or to soar to new heights. Embrace this life. It is why you are here.
Look not at the one door that is closed, ignoring the eleven others which are open. This person/place/thing that you think has rejected you ... how have they stepped aside/shifted for you to become more? Turn your focus, shift your perspective. Be more fully here NOW!
In Time All Truths Will Be Known
Yes, you will understand why the timing was perfect ... for them, for you, for me, for our Highest Good! Have faith and surrender into the softness of that assurance in Love!
The image for this article states "Imagine one thing ... just one moment you've felt REJECTION or LOSS ~ Open your seeing of that moment as your life path's auto correct, meant not to root you, but to shift you."
Start with the smaller things that have happened in your life that you've resented. Break 'em down! Explore them in hindsight, looking for opportunities you may have missed ... opportunities to heal, to forgive, to shift toward more and better.
Awareness = The Power of Choice = The Power to Change. Choose where you live emotionally in each conscious NOW moment. See ways that you are in fear as self-sabotaging who you are truly here to BE. Trust life and the trust becomes the air beneath your wings! Let GO!
I'm here to support your forward movement ... call on me! Fly Free! Up Up and Away ...
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