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Reverend Kristi BorstMuch of what seems so real in this physical dimension is not the entire Truth of who we are and/or what we can do. Over the last decade, I have allowed myself to both explore and expand beyond the physical, mental and emotional boundaries I thought were rigidly in place in this "reality". What I found was an aspect of Self that I had forgotten was there. I offer these wonderings and wanderings as an invitation to see beyond "what meets the eye", MRI (magnetic resonance imaging) and "why can't I?" in your life!

Read, ponder, explore the depths of yourself. Although our eyes focus outward, we are primarily here to see and change ourselves. If you want to go deeper in your healing and release more quickly, let's work together. These writings are not short ... but the world is full of insightful one-liners which haven't managed to fully communicate to and shift heart and soul. I remain ever hopeful ... Much love, Kristi

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Thursday, March 28, 2024

Discerning Manipulation and Responding from LOVE 😍

If a friend/relative/employer/news story trash-talks another, urging you to do the same, you are being manipulated. What you align with, you become. FB avitar of Kristi

This post got quite a bit of responses on FB. The message expanded, as often happens, into this blog.

Signs of control and manipulation may not be readily apparent to empaths, lightworkers, and souls serving Our Collective by seeing THE GOOD in others and our world. Moreover, those raised within highly dysfunctional households in which love plays out as abuse can lose touch with their own discernment and healthy boundaries. Still others have served as "peace keeper" for so long that our awareness may be clouded. All of these factors can diminish our power, discernment, joy and inner peace!

Despite having reached an age at which I am considered "a senior", I am still learning ... still recovering from a childhood in which my desires, preferences, even my needs were ignored, minimized, ridiculed and even distorted then dictated back to me. Writing and sharing in this way, helps me process, which helps others. Yet again, GOD/Source/Spirit shares "WE are lifting ONE ANOTHER!"

Awareness = The Power of Choice = The Power to Change ...
We are evolving to love, THROUGH LOVE; SELF LOVE is key!

If a friend or relative is putting down another to you, they are likely also talking about you to someone else. Similarly, if they are asking you to be on "their team/side", they likely have other teams which exclude you. This is very manipulative and far from love. When we are unaware of these dynamics, we can end up being blindsided. Remember, the only one we can change is ourSELVES, but often when we change, others in the dance also change.

An important awareness is how DIVISIVE this dynamic is ... it's the opposite of what we are here to create ... UNITY! Once we become aware of it, we can see it at play out in families, friendships, organizations, governments … absolutely anywhere and everywhere there is a beLIEf in competition and WINNING by CLIMBING OVER ANOTHER or gaining at another's loss. The Universe seeks balance across all space/time; choose love!

I received many comments from people that their family member does this. It's important to diffuse our own negative energy around the situation; or we just continue amplifying the negative. When there's that sense that things are UNjust, we can expand our awareness that there is SO MUCH MORE than meets the eye beyond THIS lifetime. There are Karma, next-life lessons, etc. that will address the inequities created here. Claim peace knowing we don't have to act as prosecutor, judge, jury, etc. except within ourselves, our intentions, our behaviors. 

We can walk away with compassion. No matter how aware we are in THIS MOMENT, we have all behaved in ways that weren't in alignment with Love and Light along the way to NOW. As we forgive the other, we forgive ourselves! See that this individual's inner woundings have separated them from LOVE. Real-eyes their behavior is ultimately borne of pain … a sense of lack … a beLIEf that love is in limited supply. The person doing this feels there is not enough love (money, stuff, etc.) for everyone, so they have to horde it AND/OR they get their self-worth externally from others aligning with them. 

Act from love and you will be moving forward."In TIME all Truths will be Known." Do not try to defend yourself to the others who have been manipulated ... they likely lack discernment, too. Ultimately, we cannot show someone what they are not ready to see.

LACK, LOVE IN LIMITED SUPPLY, COMPETITION are programs we are here to SHUT DOWN! Act from the knowing that LOVE IS ABUNDANT. The more we share, the more we create!

Aim to hold love, to keep your spirit light, to breathe out those vibes out into the world ... through you, as you! It's win-win because as we do this, we get to live there! When confronted with this behavior, news reports, manipulation, turn your focus a bit toward the LOVE, compassion and support that are also available in this NOW of YOUR reality. Do not believe everything you see, hear, read. Consciously discern if the "reporting" is coming from expansive LOVE energy or divisive FEAR.

Alexander, the donkey, is braying loudly.
Be wary of the finger-pointer because the one braying most loudly is usually the ASS. Find or create your tribe, even if it means re-defining your sense of “family”, belonging, career, success, getting ahead, alignment. Create from a perspective of inclusion, peace, love because in TRUTH, we are connected and cannot "get ahead" by pushing another behind!

When I see a choice (via The Higher Self/neutral observer) I choose LOVE. In this way, everything left "in my wake" is touched by LOVE. Through this expansion, I have found that The Universe aligns more and better loving relationships, when I walk away from those who would manipulate or try to climb over me. Endings create space for beautiful new beginnings! Let go to move forward.

In service,


Kristi Borst, PhD

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